Becoming a Community That Follows Jesus More Closely

by Scott Shackleton

We have a primarily Caucasian middle-class perspective at NRCC. This greatly influences our perception of what it means to follow Jesus. Many of us were taught that if we followed “the rules” and did enough of the “right things” it would make Jesus happy. Similarly, Jesus would be unhappy if we did the wrong things or did not do enough of the right things. This created a great disparity in association between those who were “in” [the good graces of Jesus] and those who were “out” (i.e. those needing to be redeemed).

While this seems like a natural progression of thought, it starts to contradict the teaching of Jesus on loving our neighbor. In fact, in the story of the good Samaritan, Jesus defines our neighbors as those currently in the “out” group. It also poses challenges to the traditional model of someone in the “in” group helping someone in the “out” group. I propose that we adopt a community model of loving and helping each other.

By becoming a neighbor-loving community we:

  • experience a power that is not based on my power
  • enjoy a safety not dependent on my circumstances
  • sense an affirmation that is deeper and permanent

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Enneagram Personality Type 1 – The Perfectionist

by Robin Camu

This is a summary of the characteristics of the Enneagram Type 1 personality (The Perfectionist) from our Wednesday night discussions.

Type 1 Brief Summary: (from http://www.enneagraminstitute.com/typeone.asp)
Ones are conscientious and ethical, with a strong sense of right and wrong. They are teachers, crusaders, and advocates for change: always striving to improve things, but afraid of making a mistake. Well-organized, orderly, and fastidious, they try to maintain high standards, but can slip into being critical and perfectionistic. They typically have problems with resentment and impatience.

At their Best: wise, discerning, realistic, and noble. Can be morally heroic.

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The Journey to Oneness (6): Joseph’s Technicolor Ego

On the journey to oneness, we’ve seen three movements we go through. Today we tell the story of Joseph through the lens of these three way-stations on the journey.

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Doug

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Enneagram Personality Type 9 – The Peacemaker

by Robin Camu

This is a summary of the characteristics of the Enneagram Type 9 personality (The Peacemaker) from our Wednesday night discussions. The next one is the last one. Join us!

Type 9 Brief Summary: (from http://www.enneagraminstitute.com/typenine.asp)
Nines are accepting, trusting, and stable. They are usually creative, optimistic, and supportive, but can also be too willing to go along with others to keep the peace. They want everything to go smoothly and be without conflict, but they can also tend to be complacent, simplifying problems and minimizing anything upsetting. They typically have problems with inertia and stubbornness.

At their Best: indomitable and all-embracing, they are able to bring people together and heal conflicts.

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The Journey to Oneness (5): Death to the Ego-Self

My friend lost his son to leukemia.
People said something died in him when that happened.
They were right.

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Doug

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Enneagram Personality Type 8 – The Challenger

by Robin Camu

This is a summary of the characteristics of the Enneagram Type 8 personality (The Challenger) from our Wednesday night discussions. Join us for the next one!

Type 8 Brief Summary: (from http://www.enneagraminstitute.com/typeeight.asp)
Eights are self-confident, strong, and assertive. Protective, resourceful, straight-talking, and decisive, but can also be ego-centric and domineering. Eights feel they must control their environment, especially people, sometimes becoming confrontational and intimidating. Eights typically have problems with their tempers and with allowing themselves to be vulnerable.

At their Best: self- mastering, they use their strength to improve others’ lives, becoming heroic, magnanimous, and inspiring.

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The Journey to Oneness (4): Even More on the Healthy Ego-Self

This is our last week on stage 1 of the journey to oneness.

In this lesson we talk about some of the texture of the life required to develop the interior fortitude we need in the further reaches of the journey.  More on the curriculum of virtue, and the demands of limits.

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Doug

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Enneagram Personality Type 7 – The Enthusiast

by Robin Camu

This is a summary of the characteristics of the Enneagram Type 7 personality (The Enthusiast) from our Wednesday night discussions. Join us for the next one!

Type 7 Brief Summary: (from http://www.enneagraminstitute.com/typeseven.asp)
Sevens are extroverted, optimistic, versatile, and spontaneous. Playful, high-spirited, and practical, they can also misapply their many talents, becoming over- extended, scattered, and undisciplined. They constantly seek new and exciting experiences, but can become distracted and exhausted by staying on the go. They typically have problems with impatience and impulsiveness. At their Best: they focus their talents on worthwhile goals, becoming appreciative, joyous, and satisfied.

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The Journey to Oneness (3): More on the Healthy Ego-Self

There’s more to say about the first way-station on our journey to oneness. We Americans have a certain disdain for tradition; “the way it’s always done.” This has made us who we are and has many, many benefits.  But every gift has a dark side.

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Doug

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Enneagram Personality Type 6 – The Loyalist

by Robin Camu

This is a summary of the characteristics of the Enneagram Type 6 personality (The Loyalist) from our Wednesday night discussions. Join us for the next one!

Type 6 Brief Summary: (from http://www.enneagraminstitute.com/typesix.asp)
The committed, security-oriented type. Sixes are reliable, hard-working, responsible, and trustworthy. Excellent “troubleshooters,” they foresee problems and foster cooperation, but can also become defensive, evasive, and anxious—running on stress while complaining about it. They can be cautious and indecisive, but also reactive, defiant and rebellious. They typically have problems with self-doubt and suspicion. At their Best: internally stable and self-reliant, courageously championing themselves and others.

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